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    Skippy

    Hey there

    I suffered from headaches for months after the SAH -I drank more water and cut out all sweeteners that were Aspartame or asculfame

    Headaches What does yours head feel like?

    Skippy Today, 05:15 PM Go to last post
    Sandi K

    Like everyone else my head is getting better over time. I'm at 14 months now. If I've overdone it all the symptoms begin to come back and they get stronger

    Headaches What does yours head feel like?

    Sandi K Today, 01:17 AM Go to last post
    amexdm

    Hello,

    Hi Mary, thanks for starting this because I've been meaning to ask you/all this. I am 6 months SAH and have headaches every day.

    Headaches

    amexdm Yesterday, 11:07 PM Go to last post
    amexdm

    Hello,

    Thanks for the kind words as always Sarah loulou. I hope your work is going better and you get the assignments you need.

    Back to work

    amexdm Yesterday, 10:58 PM Go to last post
    Winb143

    Hi All,

    I get stressed then head hurts...I try not to stress....but I cannot help it lol

    Hubby and daughter worry about

    pains in head

    Winb143 Yesterday, 08:54 PM Go to last post
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